My blogging mood is here again…
Haven really got down to listing the things tt sporeans shldnt take for granted, but I am not talking abt tt in this post (maybe the next one)..
Act I have been thinking abt how life and the environment u live in can really change a person and ur perception of a person. Life is what shapes us into what we are now. Imagine everybody leading the same life and experiencing all the same details in the world, that will just make us billions of adam and eve.
Ppl always wanna be unique and “be urself” and yet there are a bunch of them out there who complains abt how life is not fair and how they wld love to be somebody else. Kinda guilty for tt too. But what is there to complain abt when u know tt u can control ur own destiny. From young, u choose ur own field of study, u choose the friends u wanna be with, u choose the impression tt u wanna give others, u choose ur line of job, u choose the partner to spend the rest of ur life with, and the most impt thing to me is u choose the mentality and attitude u wanna lead ur life with.
“life is like a roller coaster” a rather old phrase from the past. But it is still ard bcoz it has some truth in it. Nobody’s life is always “up there” and nobody’s life is always rock bottom. So when u hit rock bottom, there are only 2 choices. Remain there or climb back up. This is where mentality comes in. why are there 2 classes of ppl out there when there is only 1 world? It’s all in the mind I wld say. The mind is the strongest weapon tt one cld use to destroy others. Why are there terrorists out there who are willing to sacrifice their bodies and why are there soldiers who are willing to give their all to protect their love ones? If u can manipulate one’s mind, then I guess the US government will be willing to do anything to buy u over.
Environment changes ppl. It’s like this silent killer in ur backyard, or angel if it changes u for the better. Sometimes it’s creepy and shocking to look into ur inner self and even more so when u look into others. Ppl always say u dunnoe who ur true friends are unless they stand by u during difficult times. Act for me, I think tt close friends are those tt I think of during difficult times. Those tt I wld want to share my troubles with and feel better juz by sharing it with them. They dun have to do anything, a listening ear will suffice. I consider myself to be v fortunate to have a bunch of them. Really. Esp when I am far away from home, this is the kind of thing tt will pull me through.
Another aspect is tt when u are ard close friends, their company alone is enough. Even when there is silence, it is a comfortable one. U dun have to use up all ur brain juice to come up with interesting topics bcoz it juz comes naturally. Talking abt everything under the world. I muz admit tt there are not many ppl out there who is like this to me.
So I juz wanna dedicate this post to all my lovely friends out there (u know who u are). Thank you for being juz there! I love ur…
and to “uhu” (or are u the “glue” lol): really glad to share so much laughter with u recently and of course the bitching part too. Haha. Though I dun think u will get to read this, but when u 肝郁 can always talk to me k (or juz give me THAT face). Lol.. but that wun happen v often la coz u are always entertained by me! Muahaha…
"The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. We have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past. We cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is to play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. And so it is with you... We are in charge of our Attitudes." Charles R. Swindoll